{"id":23121,"date":"2021-11-15T15:39:22","date_gmt":"2021-11-15T08:39:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jobsgo.vn\/blog\/?p=23121"},"modified":"2022-06-30T17:48:27","modified_gmt":"2022-06-30T10:48:27","slug":"xay-dung-thuong-hieu-ca-nhan-qua-ngon-ngu-co-the","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jobsgo.vn\/blog\/xay-dung-thuong-hieu-ca-nhan-qua-ngon-ngu-co-the\/","title":{"rendered":"[Tips] X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n qua ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng phi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef th\u00f4ng qua bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng,… Y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh\u00a0 t\u1edbi 55% s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong giao ti\u1ebfp, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. V\u1eady b\u00ed quy\u1ebft x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n qua ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n M\u1ee5c l\u1ee5c<\/p> \u1ede m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng, t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 giao ti\u1ebfp. N\u00f3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00f4ng tin m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng qua c\u00e1c c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, \u0111i\u1ec7u b\u1ed9 hay \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t.<\/span><\/p>\n V\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5p li\u1ebfm, che \u0111\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00fd do th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ch\u1eadm deadline th\u00ec bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n lo s\u1ee3, hoang mang c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u201cthay l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i\u201d, gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, g\u1eafn cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i m\u00e1c \u201cl\u01b0\u01a1n ch\u00faa\u201d tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t s\u1ebfp.<\/span><\/p>\n Theo gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Mehrabian: <\/span>\u201cKhi giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ch\u1ec9 chi\u1ebfm kho\u1ea3ng 7%, gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u chi\u1ebfm 38% v\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u1ebfn 55%. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng phi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef nh\u01b0ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t, truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 r\u1ea5t cao. Ngo\u00e0i ra, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 – body language c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1, tr\u1ee3 th\u1ee7 \u0111\u1eafc l\u1ef1c gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n\u201d.<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u00e1c c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng k\u00e8m theo l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111o\u00e1n ra t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng, sau khi giao ti\u1ebfp, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ghi nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t vui t\u01b0\u01a1i, cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat,… b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i.\u00a0 Do \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n qua ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/span><\/p>\n \ud83d\udc49 Xem th\u00eam: <\/i><\/b>Th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 g\u00ec? L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n?<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n quan ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 sau:<\/span><\/p>\n V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb <\/span>genZ<\/b><\/a><\/span> th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n xa l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u201cth\u1ebf h\u1ec7 c\u00fai \u0111\u1ea7u\u201d r\u1ed3i ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 (\u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, m\u00e1y t\u00ednh,…) th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh khi\u1ebfn cho d\u00e1ng \u0111i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00fam n\u00fam, thi\u1ebfu s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng, hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cg\u00f9\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, d\u00e1ng \u0111i n\u00e0y c\u00f2n bi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/p>\n V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n qua d\u00e1ng \u0111i, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd l\u00e0 d\u00f9 c\u00f3 \u0111au c\u1ed9t s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea1y deadline su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00eam, d\u00f9 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi th\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef th\u1eb3ng l\u01b0ng. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 tin, phong th\u00e1i v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng.<\/span><\/p>\n D\u00e1ng ng\u1ed3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, nghi\u00eam t\u00fac,… nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ecdc v\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i kh\u00e9p n\u00e9p th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, t\u1ef1 ti; ng\u1ed3i v\u1eaft ch\u00e2n th\u00ec th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 th\u00f4 l\u1ed7, thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c,…<\/span><\/p>\n M\u1ed9t g\u1ee3i \u00fd d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t d\u00e1ng ng\u1ed3i v\u1eeba tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, v\u1eeba gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e9t duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng, \u201cchanh s\u1ea3\u201d \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i th\u1eb3ng l\u01b0ng, ch\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eaft ch\u00e9o nh\u1eb9. N\u1ebfu ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh hay \u0111i cafe, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc g\u1ed1i t\u1ef1a l\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e1ng ng\u1ed3i sang h\u01a1n nh\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u1ea1i sao n\u00ean x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n qua ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3?<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n
Tips x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n qua ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ef1c \u201c\u0111\u1ec9nh\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n
D\u00e1ng \u0111i<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
D\u00e1ng ng\u1ed3i<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n