{"id":4767,"date":"2019-08-26T22:24:54","date_gmt":"2019-08-26T15:24:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jobsgo.vn\/blog\/?p=4767"},"modified":"2025-03-19T14:15:11","modified_gmt":"2025-03-19T07:15:11","slug":"lam-gi-de-cai-thien-kha-nang-giao-tiep","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jobsgo.vn\/blog\/lam-gi-de-cai-thien-kha-nang-giao-tiep\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
William Carlos Williams \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i\u201d. Giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp m\u00faa, t\u1eadp \u0111i xe. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng b\u1ecf th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c v\u00ec n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/span><\/p>\n Giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt. Ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 Barack Obama l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1i \u0111\u1eafc c\u1eed t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng M\u1ef9. V\u1edbi c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o, \u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00f4ng qua l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn s\u1eafc b\u00e9n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ec3 giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t. V\u1eady l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh? C\u00f9ng t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi v\u1edbi JobsGO!<\/span><\/p>\n M\u1ee5c l\u1ee5c<\/p> M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra \u0111\u00e3 cho hay: l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5u t\u1ea1o n\u00ean t\u1eeb ba y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u. Trong giao ti\u1ebfp, v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ch\u1ec9 chi\u1ebfm c\u00f3 7%. C\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u (38%) v\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfm t\u1edbi 55%.<\/span><\/p>\n Body Language \u2013 <\/span>ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3<\/span><\/span><\/a> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t, \u0111i\u1ec7u b\u1ed9, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh giao ti\u1ebfp. M\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 m\u00e3 ri\u00eang. Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng \u201cnghe\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3.. S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch hay \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang \u201cn\u00f3i\u201d theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang. Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u0103ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang giao ti\u1ebfp c\u00f9ng.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n H\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 \u201cph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng. Gi\u1ea3 d\u1ee5 trong bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 <\/span>tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng<\/span><\/span><\/a> h\u01a1i ng\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda sau, tay \u0111an ch\u00e9o, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u00e3y l\u00e0m theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Ngo\u00e0i ra, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ph\u00e2n t\u00edch ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a tay l\u00ean s\u1edd c\u1eb1m ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, xem x\u00e9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y m\u1eaft h\u1ecd chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e1o li\u00ean, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1eb9p \u2013 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. N\u1ebfu \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia hai tay ch\u1ed1ng xu\u1ed1ng gh\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u00e2n l\u00f9i ra sau \u2013 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft th\u00fac cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n\u2026 D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0 v\u01a1 \u0111\u0169a c\u1ea3 n\u1eafm. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o.<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cChim kh\u00f4n k\u00eau ti\u1ebfng r\u1ea3nh rang. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 nghe\u201d. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c \u00fd ngh\u0129a kh\u00e1c nhau. V\u00e0 d\u0129 nhi\u00ean, ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i <\/span>gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u<\/span><\/span><\/a>. Gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n s\u1ebd h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. Gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u c\u00f2n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Ch\u1eb3ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i ng\u1ecdng ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i ch\u1eb3ng r\u00f5 ch\u1eef. H\u00e3y luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1edbc g\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda c\u00e1c l\u1ed7i ph\u00e1t \u00e2m c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n. Th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 N \u2013 L, D \u2013 R, X \u2013 S, Ch \u2013 Tr\u2026 H\u00e3y ng\u01b0ng th\u00f3i quen ph\u00e1t \u00e2m v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 v\u00ec nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0m ch\u1eef kh\u00f4ng tr\u00f2n. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n Nh\u1ea5n nh\u00e1 t\u1eeb ng\u1eef s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m n\u1ed9i dung c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n. Vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ea5n nh\u00e1 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t s\u1eafc th\u00e1i r\u1ea5t ri\u00eang. Nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1ea5n s\u1ebd thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd g\u1ea5p 3 l\u1ea7n so v\u1edbi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/span><\/p>\n Gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i tr\u1ea7m \u1ea5m \u2013 \u00e2m v\u1ef1c th\u1ea5p l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u th\u1ecb cho s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady. M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1c CEO nam th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 gi\u1ecdng tr\u1ea7m \u1ea5m. \u00c2m v\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c CEO c\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3m 1% th\u00ec gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u0103ng l\u00ean 30 tri\u1ec7u USD. M\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i tr\u1ea7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh. \u00c2m v\u1ef1c th\u1ea5p mang l\u1ea1i ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c cho giao ti\u1ebfp.<\/span><\/p>\n >>>C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m: Ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ec9 Tesol l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/a><\/strong>?<\/span><\/p>\n B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ai n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i l\u00ed nh\u00ed ch\u1eb3ng ai nghe r\u00f5. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c ai n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i qu\u00e1 to, nh\u01b0 \u201c\u0111\u00e1nh\u201d v\u00e0o tai h\u1ecd. \u00c2m l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1ea5p khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u sai \u00fd b\u1ea1n. \u00c2m l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cao l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb tra t\u1ea5n. M\u1ed9t \u00e2m l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7, h\u01a1i d\u00e0i s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n \u00a0B\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u1ec3 giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 n\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb v\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1ed9i dung cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i g\u00ec, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi g\u1eb7p l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u, h\u00e3y \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng quy t\u1eafc FORD. FORD g\u1ed3m Family, Occupation, Recreation v\u00e0 Dreams. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi th\u0103m v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u cho bu\u1ed5i tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 gi\u00fap k\u00e9o d\u00e0i n\u00f3, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp khi\u1ebfn ai c\u0169ng th\u00edch b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/a> \u2013 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c\u00a0<\/span>t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ESFJ<\/span><\/strong><\/a>, v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ngay t\u1eeb l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi th\u00eam t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 <\/strong><\/a><\/span>phim<\/strong> gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n<\/span><\/strong><\/a>\u00a0\u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u00eam ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n \u0110\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, tr\u1ef1c di\u1ec7n v\u00e0o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. \u0110\u1eebng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 hoa m\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh b\u1ecb v\u00f2ng vo. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1edbi n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng tin c\u1ea7n truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t.<\/span><\/p>\n H\u00e3y n\u00f3i theo nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc BRIEF. BRIEF l\u00e0 Background \u2013 d\u00e0n \u00fd, Reason \u2013 l\u00fd do, Information \u2013 th\u00f4ng tin, End \u2013 \u0111o\u1ea1n k\u1ebft v\u00e0 Follow up \u2013 di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn. Giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o s\u1ef1 m\u1ea1ch l\u1ea1c, ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 cho c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n.<\/span><\/p>\n N\u00f3i v\u00f2ng vo khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i tr\u1eadt kh\u1ecfi tr\u1ee5c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1, l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ban \u0111\u1ea7u. N\u00f3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. H\u00e3y tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y n\u1ed9i dung m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn, \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng tin tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m nh\u1ea5t cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n >>>C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m: Ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ec9 ti\u1ebfng Anh Toefl l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/a><\/strong>?<\/span><\/p>\n \u0110\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u0103ng s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. Giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n thao thao b\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n.<\/span><\/p>\n Trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdc, khi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang th\u1ea3 h\u1ed3n tr\u00ean c\u00e0nh c\u00e2y, c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n: \u201cN\u00e3y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i g\u00ec?\u201d. Khi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda c\u00f4. Giao ti\u1ebfp c\u0169ng v\u1eady! D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i g\u00ec. \u0110\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi gi\u00fap bu\u1ed5i tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n, t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t.<\/span><\/p>\n Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang n\u00f3i, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi cho h\u1ecd. Nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd n\u00f3i d\u1ee9t c\u00e2u, d\u1ee9t \u00fd, tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng xen ngang. Vi\u1ec7c <\/span>\u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi<\/span><\/a><\/span> th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang theo d\u00f5i v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111ang n\u00f3i. \u0110\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u0169ng gi\u00fap c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n li\u1ec1n m\u1ea1ch v\u00e0 l\u1ea5p k\u00edn nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c \u0103n n\u00f3i kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp, b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng nghe. T\u00f4i c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 th\u00edch c\u00e2u n\u00f3i trong b\u1ed9 phim \u201cTo Kill a Mockingbird\u201d \u2013 Gi\u1ebft con chim nh\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0: \u201cCon s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n sau \u0111\u00e2y, h\u00e3y xem x\u00e9t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1eeb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u2013 h\u00e3y bi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh h\u1ecd v\u00e0 ra ngo\u00e0i r\u1ea3i b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe h\u1ecd. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. L\u1eafng nghe gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 gi\u00fap bu\u1ed5i tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110\u1eebng l\u1eafng nghe th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i l\u1eddi n\u00f3i gi\u00f3 bay hay nghe tai n\u00e0y l\u1ecdt tai kia. \u0110\u00f4i khi, trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, Silent Treatment trong t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/a> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra khi m\u1ed9t b\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u1eafng nghe ho\u1eb7c im l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh xung \u0111\u1ed9t, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ea1o kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/span><\/p>\n H\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o l\u1eddi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i. L\u1eafng nghe l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u1eafng nghe gi\u00fap t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n Ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u00e3y cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. G\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eb9, h\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n\u2026 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi khi h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i d\u1edf. Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t khi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd v\u1eeba d\u1ee9t \u00fd. H\u00e3y ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/span><\/p>\n1. S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 trong giao ti\u1ebfp (Body language)<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
Body Language \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe t\u1edbi 55%<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n
S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n
2. Gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1t \u00e2m r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n
Nh\u1ea5n nh\u00e1 t\u1eeb ng\u1eef<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n
N\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u00e2m v\u1ef1c th\u1ea5p<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n
S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u00e2m l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n
3. X\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1ed9i dung cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
4. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, kh\u00f4ng v\u00f2ng vo<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
5. \u0110\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
6. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
L\u1eafng nghe gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u h\u1ecd.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n
L\u1eafng nghe gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u1eddi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n