{"id":58847,"date":"2023-11-22T09:40:44","date_gmt":"2023-11-22T02:40:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jobsgo.vn\/blog\/?p=58847"},"modified":"2025-01-14T11:19:24","modified_gmt":"2025-01-14T04:19:24","slug":"cach-tu-choi-kheo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jobsgo.vn\/blog\/cach-tu-choi-kheo\/","title":{"rendered":"11 c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, tinh t\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1eadt l\u00f2ng ai"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, vi\u1ec7c t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u1eabn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 <\/em>c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i kh\u00e9o<\/a> l\u00e9o<\/em><\/strong>, tinh t\u1ebf, gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng theo d\u00f5i n\u1ed9i dung d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u201cngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o\u201d \u0111\u00f3 nh\u00e9.<\/em><\/p>\n M\u1ee5c l\u1ee5c<\/p> M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i tinh t\u1ebf, kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef nh\u01b0 \u201cr\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m \u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tham gia v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi gi\u1eef cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai b\u00ean kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Xem th\u00eam: 9 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n trong giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecf qua<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n D\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi b\u1ea1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi qu\u00e1 nhanh, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap l\u00e0m d\u1ecbu \u0111i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t tinh th\u1ea7n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong giao ti\u1ebfp. Tuy nhi\u00ean, quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y l\u00fd do m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n Tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n l\u1eddi m\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tinh t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng ra. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, b\u1ea1n truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u00fd ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n th\u00eam th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n V\u1edbi c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i kh\u00e9o cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n n\u00e0y, b<\/span>\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi m\u1eddi m\u1edbi trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai g\u1ea7n, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u00e0y c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi duy tr\u00ec tinh th\u1ea7n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eddi m\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0a ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. L\u00fd do c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c, t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n t\u1eeb ph\u00eda \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap gi\u1eef g\u00ecn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m hay g\u00e2y ra s\u1ef1 phi\u1ec1n l\u00f2ng.<\/p>\n Khi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. B\u1ea1n tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee3t nh\u1ea3, thi\u1ebfu nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi m\u1eddi \u0111i ch\u01a1i vui v\u1ebb hay l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i ra l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, d\u1ec5 nghe, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, l\u1eddi l\u1ebd v\u00f4 duy\u00ean hay kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n Xem th\u00eam: Ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i – H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i “kh\u00f4ng” m\u00e0 v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n tham gia bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n\/l\u1eddi m\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 trong c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i \u201cl\u1ea7n sau\u201d ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ecf ra t\u1eed t\u1ebf. Thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i \u201ccho m\u00ecnh th\u1eddi gian xem l\u1ea1i l\u1ecbch h\u1eb9n nh\u00e9\u201d, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o hy v\u1ecdng cho cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p sau n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd h\u1ecfi l\u1ea1i sau m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, h\u00e3y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n M\u1ed9t m\u1eb9o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng theo c\u00e1ch t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb.<\/p>\n Thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u201cKh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u201d, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u201cl\u1eeba d\u1ed1i\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang r\u1ea5t b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc. D\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n Ngo\u00e0i ra, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t ai kh\u00e1c (ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 2, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, anh, ch\u1ecb, em,…) \u0111ang r\u1ea3nh cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1 kh\u00e9o, kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng ai.<\/p>\n Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u00e1y n\u00e1y khi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap l\u00e0m d\u1ecbu \u0111i s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 gi\u1eef cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u00e1y n\u00e1y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i v\u00e0 ch\u00fac m\u1eebng cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng,… B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, gi\u00fap duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i.<\/p>\n V\u00ed d\u1ee5: T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfc, nh\u01b0ng do m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 xin l\u1ed7i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t ti\u1ec7n n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fac b\u1ea1n m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n Xem th\u00eam: C\u00e1ch vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o h\u01a1n. Thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp “kh\u00f4ng,” b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n V\u00ed d\u1ee5: R\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m \u01a1n v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o n\u00f3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, sau khi xem x\u00e9t k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed9i nh\u00f3m ho\u1eb7c d\u1ef1 \u00e1n. M\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u1ebfu th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n theo h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u00f9ng nhau.<\/p>\n Ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i nhanh ch\u00f3ng khi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i<\/strong><\/a> kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 n\u00e9t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Trong m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng giao ti\u1ebfp, vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh nh\u1eb9n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap gi\u1eef cho cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n linh ho\u1ea1t m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi l\u1eddi m\u1eddi th\u00f4ng qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i hay m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn th\u00f4ng qua tin nh\u1eafn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch nhi\u1ec1u. Khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y ra s\u1ef1 c\u1ed9c c\u1eb1n kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n. Vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn c\u0169ng gi\u00fap tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng l\u00e0m ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n hy v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eedi l\u1eddi m\u1eddi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ng\u1eafn, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n b\u1ea1n th\u00eam n\u1eefa. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y l\u01b0u \u00fd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n Xem th\u00eam: C\u1ea9m nang tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng \u2013 Ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n T\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i kh\u00e9o l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i “kh\u00f4ng” th\u1eb3ng th\u1eebng, h\u00e3y th\u1eed nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch sau: b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m k\u00edch tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb, n\u00eau l\u00fd do t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p nh\u1edd l\u00e0m h\u1ed9 vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: “M\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap, nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0111ang b\u1eadn ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh d\u1ef1 \u00e1n c\u1ee7a s\u1ebfp. \u00c0 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft supervisor l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/strong><\/a> kh\u00f4ng? S\u1ebfp m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111\u1ea5y, th\u00fa v\u1ecb l\u1eafm!”.<\/p>\n Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn, quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n nh\u01b0 MBTI ENTJ<\/strong><\/a> c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n trau d\u1ed3i k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o c\u1ea7n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 l\u00fd do h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n, sau \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u00fd do t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, h\u00e3y k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi ch\u00fac t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p ho\u1eb7c g\u1ee3i \u00fd m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p thay th\u1ebf (n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n1. N\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
2. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
3. \u0110\u01b0a ra s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
4. \u0110\u01b0a ra l\u00fd do t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p l\u00fd<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
5. T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
6. Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
7. \u0110\u00e1nh l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
8. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u00e1y n\u00e1y<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
9. D\u00f9ng l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
10. \u0110\u1eebng m\u1ea5t qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
11. Ch\u1ec9 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng tin nh\u1eafn<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n