{"id":7077,"date":"2020-01-17T14:30:24","date_gmt":"2020-01-17T07:30:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jobsgo.vn\/blog\/?p=7077"},"modified":"2025-01-05T23:08:04","modified_gmt":"2025-01-05T16:08:04","slug":"danh-cho-nhung-nguoi-da-co-mot-nam-nhieu-that-bai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jobsgo.vn\/blog\/danh-cho-nhung-nguoi-da-co-mot-nam-nhieu-that-bai\/","title":{"rendered":"Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 g\u00ec? L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ai mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1eaft gi\u00e1 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. V\u1eady th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/a>? Li\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 \u201cm\u1eb9\u201d c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua, \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00f9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3? H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng <\/span><\/i>JobsGO<\/span><\/i><\/span> t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p ngay qua b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9!<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n M\u1ee5c l\u1ee5c<\/p> Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng mu\u00f4n m\u00e0u mu\u00f4n v\u1ebb, b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng xanh v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n ng\u1eadp tr\u00e0n m\u00e0u h\u1ed3ng. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u00ec v\u1eabn s\u1ebd t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u00edt nh\u1eefng r\u1ee7i ro v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. V\u1eady b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u1ec1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 g\u00ec ch\u01b0a?<\/span><\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n nay. Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n th\u00ec th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn hay ch\u01b0a n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh, ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea1ch \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1eb7t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\n C\u00f2n theo wikipedia th\u00ec th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n, nh\u1eefng d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra hay l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 theo d\u1ef1 ki\u1ebfn. C\u00e1c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, tinh th\u1ea7n cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd b\u1ecb s\u1ed1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m \u201cb\u00e1n m\u1eb7t\u201d cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u00ec th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c, b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/span><\/p>\n \ud83d\udc49 Xem th\u00eam: \u0110\u1eebng x\u1ea3 Stress, h\u00e3y \u201cl\u00e0m b\u1ea1n\u201d v\u1edbi Stress<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u1edf tr\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai mong mu\u1ed1n, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c nhau khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 l\u00e0:<\/span><\/p>\n Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ebd r\u1ebd theo b\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u1eb7t n\u00e0o hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/span><\/p>\n Theo \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t nguy hi\u1ec3m v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. S\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi n\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t ngay t\u1eeb trong suy ngh\u0129. N\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c k\u00e9o d\u00e0i th\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u1ee5t l\u00f9i, l\u1ea1c h\u1eadu trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n.<\/span><\/p>\n Khi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh l\u1edbn lao, gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c h\u00f3a \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m m\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u1ee3 s\u1ec7t, thi\u1ebfu ni\u1ec1m tin, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c lo l\u1eafng th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng. V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n Nghe qua th\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 l\u00fd v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai mong mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ea3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/p>\n H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3, nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00e2y th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n, h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng y\u00ean b\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9t ph\u00e1, lu\u00f4n mang t\u00e2m l\u00fd s\u1ee3 s\u1ec7t, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n.<\/span><\/p>\n >>>Xem th\u00eam: Suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/a><\/strong>?<\/span><\/p>\n \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng m\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. Do \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1eb7p ch\u00fat kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed, kh\u00f4ng quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/span><\/p>\n \u0110a s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m, c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean, lu\u00f4n ki\u00ean tr\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201ctr\u00e1i ng\u1ecdt\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n >>> C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m: Ki\u1ec3m tra t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch b\u1eb1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc<\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o 100%. B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, trau d\u1ed3i. Do \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 m\u00e3i \u0111\u1ee9ng im 1 ch\u1ed7, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecm t\u00f2i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp th\u00ec s\u1ebd m\u00e3i \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ebd m\u00e3i thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t.<\/span><\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u1edbn khi\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i b\u1edfi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea1y \u0111ua th\u00ec s\u1ebd m\u00e3i \u1edf ph\u00eda sau.<\/span><\/p>\n T\u1ee5c ng\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201cth\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d, li\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/span><\/p>\n Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc, kinh nghi\u1ec7m sau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai c\u1ee9 ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, lu\u00f4n bi quan, ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i s\u1ebd m\u00e3i l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. V\u1eady c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i mang \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/span><\/p>\n Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 do c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh. V\u1eady sau nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea1ch \u0111\u00edch kh\u00f4ng?<\/span><\/p>\n S\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5m h\u1ebft, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang thi\u1ebfu th\u1ee9 g\u00ec, ch\u01b0a c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c. Sau m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ea1i cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn th\u00ec s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi. \u0110\u00f4i khi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/span><\/p>\n \ud83d\udc49 Xem th\u00eam: \u0110\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n Lao \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1eb1ng ch\u00e2n tay, t\u01b0 duy, tr\u00ed n\u00e3o. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i, c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecf ra \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u1eady s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o n\u1ebfu c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf ra l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng mang \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p? Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u00e0y li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed v\u00e0 b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c?<\/span><\/p>\n Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a lao \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ra c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c, th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed giai \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y, s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i s\u1ebd th\u00f4i th\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u01a1n n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n s\u1ee9c lao \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ra.<\/span><\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai sinh ra c\u0169ng \u1edf v\u1ea1ch \u0111\u00edch, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3, c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ecb tr\u00ed cao trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng su\u1ed1t bao nhi\u00eau n\u0103m.<\/span><\/p>\n H\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u1ef1c d\u1eady n\u1ed5i. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, lu\u00f4n ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng l\u1edbn, l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2n b\u1ea9y \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/span><\/p>\n Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u0111\u01a1n h\u00f3a c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c, b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec9nh vinh quang cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n Tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n nay c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa, tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ecb tr\u00ed nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y gian kh\u1ed5, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1.<\/span><\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng may m\u1eafn g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, l\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c, l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc, t\u00edch l\u0169y kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u1edf nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp theo nh\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n N\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang s\u1ebd ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nhanh ch\u00f3ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eadt b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, cho m\u00ecnh 1 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/span><\/p>\n D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f9ng tham kh\u1ea3o nh\u00e9!<\/span><\/p>\n D\u00f9 n\u0103m qua l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7y th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, khi nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng. M\u1ed7i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. Khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/a><\/strong> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch. Nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i, gi\u00fap h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t n\u0103m m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y hi v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u1ecbnh v\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u01a1n. Qua l\u0103ng k\u00ednh c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch MBTI, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c nh\u00f3m t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch INFJ<\/a><\/strong>, nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 kh\u00e1t khao ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a INFJ d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng h\u01a1n khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u00e0o l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3i qua s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3. C\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u00e0o l\u00e0 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua. Hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin m\u00e0 JobsGO<\/a><\/strong> mang \u0111\u1ebfn trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft s\u1ebd h\u1eefu \u00edch v\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n \ud83d\udc49 Xem th\u00eam: S\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p l\u00e0 g\u00ec? B\u00ed quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"1. Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n
2. T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i?<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n
2.1. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
2.2. Thi\u1ebfu ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
2.3. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00ec ch\u00ednh n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
2.4. Thi\u1ebfu \u00fd ch\u00ed, ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, l\u00f2ng quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
2.5. Thi\u1ebfu tinh th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
3. Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n
3.1. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i gi\u00fap t\u0103ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
3.2. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a lao \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
3.3. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u00ednh ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
4. L\u1eafng nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n
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5. C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n
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