{"id":71808,"date":"2024-06-03T14:19:05","date_gmt":"2024-06-03T07:19:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jobsgo.vn\/blog\/?p=71808"},"modified":"2024-09-24T15:36:27","modified_gmt":"2024-09-24T08:36:27","slug":"delulu-la-gi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jobsgo.vn\/blog\/delulu-la-gi\/","title":{"rendered":"Delulu L\u00e0 G\u00ec? Gi\u1ea3i M\u00e3 \u00dd Ngh\u0129a C\u1ee7a T\u1eeb Delulu \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c GenZ \u01afa Chu\u1ed9ng Hi\u1ec7n Nay"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd nghe qua c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cDelulu is the Solulu\u201d ch\u01b0a? C\u00f9ng JobsGO kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 xem <\/em>Delulu l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/em><\/strong><\/a>,<\/em> ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch khai th\u00e1c hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9!<\/em><\/p>\n M\u1ee5c l\u1ee5c<\/p> Delulu <\/a><\/strong>(t\u1eeb l\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a “delusional”) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd, c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Delulu th\u01b0\u1eddng bi\u1ebfn l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c theo c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, thay v\u00ec coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00e2y tranh c\u00e3i, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn Delulu nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng to l\u1edbn n\u1eb1m trong m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1edd v\u00e0o lu\u1eadt h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn (manifestation) – ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef Delulu<\/strong> xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e2m m\u1ed9 n\u1ec1n \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c Kpop. Fan h\u00e2m m\u1ed9 th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t t\u1eeb th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, d\u00f9 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m khao kh\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao – m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n Theo th\u1eddi gian, Delulu<\/strong> \u0111\u00e3 lan r\u1ed9ng ra nhi\u1ec1u l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Fan Kpop, hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y c\u00f2n xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, t\u1eeb m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a Delulu gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c s\u00e2u xa c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1ch t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n Xem th\u00eam: Guilty Pleasure L\u00e0 G\u00ec? Th\u00fa Vui T\u1ed9i L\u1ed7i \u2013 Th\u00edch Nh\u01b0ng V\u1eabn Ph\u1ea3i Gi\u1ea5u?<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng Delulu<\/strong> ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i b\u1edfi nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n:<\/p>\n Hi\u1ec7n nay, m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 v\u0103n h\u00f3a t\u1ef1 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi chia s\u1ebb cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i. C\u00e1c n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 Facebook, Instagram,… khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n, c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1 cao gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n Nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a Delulu. Khi nhu c\u1ea7u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng di\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c theo c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1c t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u phi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 ng\u1eef c\u1ea3nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng. Thi\u1ebfu k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i sai l\u1ec7ch c\u00e1c t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 Delulu<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Xem th\u00eam: V\u00f4 Duy\u00ean L\u00e0 G\u00ec? \u0110\u00e2u L\u00e0 Bi\u1ec3u Hi\u1ec7n C\u1ee7a V\u00f4 Duy\u00ean?<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, Delulu<\/strong> c\u0169ng mang \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u01b0 duy m\u1edbi n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch khai th\u00e1c \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. C\u00e1c \u201c\u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng\u201d n\u00e0y c\u0169ng gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch manifestation (lu\u1eadt h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn). D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 g\u1ee3i \u00fd l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 Delulu kh\u00f4ng v\u00f4 \u00edch:<\/p>\n B\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 khai th\u00e1c ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a Delulu<\/strong> l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Suy ngh\u0129 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 kh\u00e1ch quan v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng xung quanh thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t ra v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau cho m\u00ecnh. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n >>>T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam: Gi\u00e1o tr\u00ecnh b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 h\u1ecdc<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Thay v\u00ec t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn, h\u00e3y h\u00ecnh dung v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. Lu\u1eadt h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn (manifestation) khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1 khi tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 dejavu l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/strong><\/a>, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, t\u1ea1o th\u00eam \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho vi\u1ec7c tin v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 t\u00e1i hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/p>\n T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd gi\u00fap ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t d\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u00f2n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ea1c quan, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111am m\u00ea v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o suy ngh\u0129 Delulu qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c. Khi b\u1ea1n d\u1ed3n h\u1ebft t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u00edt c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gian cho nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf.<\/p>\n Xem th\u00eam: NLP l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/a>?<\/strong><\/p>\n1. Delulu L\u00e0 G\u00ec?<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
2. Ngu\u1ed3n G\u1ed1c C\u1ee7a Delulu\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
3. L\u00fd Gi\u1ea3i S\u1ef1 Ph\u1ed5 Bi\u1ebfn C\u1ee7a Delulu Trong X\u00e3 H\u1ed9i Hi\u1ec7n \u0110\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
3.1 \u1ea2nh H\u01b0\u1edfng C\u1ee7a M\u1ea1ng X\u00e3 H\u1ed9i V\u00e0 V\u0103n H\u00f3a T\u1ef1 Th\u1ec3 Hi\u1ec7n B\u1ea3n Th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
3.2 Nhu C\u1ea7u \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c C\u00f4ng Nh\u1eadn V\u00e0 \u0110\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1 Cao<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
3.3 Thi\u1ebfu K\u1ef9 N\u0103ng Giao Ti\u1ebfp V\u00e0 Nh\u1eadn Th\u1ee9c X\u00e3 H\u1ed9i<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
4. L\u00e0m Sao \u0110\u1ec3 Delulu Kh\u00f4ng V\u00f4 \u00cdch?<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
4.1 T\u1ef1 Nh\u1eadn Th\u1ee9c V\u00e0 Ki\u1ec3m So\u00e1t Suy Ngh\u0129<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
4.2 C\u00f3 Ni\u1ec1m Tin V\u00e0o Suy Ngh\u0129 C\u1ee7a B\u1ea3n Th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
4.3 T\u01b0 Duy T\u00edch C\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
4.4 Theo \u0110u\u1ed5i \u0110am M\u00ea v\u00e0 M\u1ee5c Ti\u00eau<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n